3rd Birthday Invite

Sometimes, I don't know where the week goes. Here is Thursday already and I haven't blogged since Monday. It's not like I really do anything after work either...I usually just come home, lay on the couch and wait for Timmy to get home from work. And then, we just lay on the couch so more. Real productive uh? I keep telling myself it's because of the weather. I think it was, because today it was beautiful out and it made me really happy, and we're planning on going for a walk when Tim gets home. Speak of the devil...he just walked in the door.

I'm going to visit the mitten this weekend. I'm really excited! We're celebrating my niece's 3rd birthday, and my littlest sister just got engaged, so we'll get to chat about her wedding and do some planning! Plus, I think I'll get to see my besties from high school, who I haven't seen in AGES!

Wanna see the invite I designed for Andi's party? It turned out kinda fun. It was a quicky, it took me about 15 minutes.

Love Bean

I have a special announcement. Timmy and I are expecting a little love bean, our first child. I'm 12 weeks along and due end of September. We found on January 25th and have been waiting for to hit 12 weeks, which is when we agreed we'd share the news with extended family and the rest of the world (our parents, siblings and a couple of our closest friends have known for awhile now) I'm pretty sure this is one of the hardest secrets they've ever had to keep, as they are all very excited. Our love bean has us excited and scarred, and came as a little bit of a surprise. Meaning, we weren't trying, but we weren't preventing and were totally okay if it did happen.

Needless to say, my blog will may take a turn to more baby related material. I'm already working on putting together a little book documenting the pregnancy. It's called "Letters To Our Love Bean" I've been writing letters periodically, which will go in the book along with photos, so we can have something to look back at to remember this exciting 9 month journey.

So far, I'm really not one of those women who, love to be pregnant. Fingers crossed that changes after I'm completely through my first trimester, and I actually look and feel more pregnant. Otherwise it's going to be a long, hot, summer with a very cranky Jamie.

*Note to my friends on Facebook: I don't plan on posting a lot about the pregnancy on my Facebook. If you want to know about it or see pictures, you'll have to follow my blog ;)

This Week on Pinterest

Here's a little treat for you. Six of my favorite pins I came across on Pinterest today.

I love the idea of using letters as gift tags. Typography and gift wrapping, two things I adore

Doesn't this just ooze romance? It's beautiful and unexpected. I could see some beautiful photos being taken here.

I love this ring. It would be so special to collect a few rings that belonged to your mother, grandmother or another special person and have them soldered together in one cool vintage heirloom piece.

Cool way to display photographs. I'll keep this in mind for a future home.

This would pretty much be the best patio ever! I really really really really want this someday. It's definitely something you could DIY.

This looks so comfy and a perfect look for a warm Spring day in Chi City. I'm obessed with cardigans right now. I wear one like every-other-day. They're the BEST layering piece a girl could have. They can be worn over anything, a t-shirt, tank or dress.

Cage the Elephant

Last Sunday, Tim and I went to see Cage the Elephant at The Vic. Generally, Timmy and I have very different taste in music, but these guys are one of the few bands that be both really really like and can listen to with out arguing. If you're not sure who they are, they're probably most famous for their hit "Ain't No Rest For The Wicked" or you may have heard their newest single "Shake Me Down". In case that doesn't ring any bells, Tim says they could be compared to the White Stripes, just faster.

I freaked out a little bit while waiting in line, because they were making a big deal about not bringing cameras in, and of course I had mine. They didn't let the first 8 people in the door because they had them. So of course I was freaking out, because you know goody goody me, I don't like to break the rules, and they were checking bags so I wasn't extra nervous. Tim was laughing at me. Luckily, it's winter and I had a bulky coat on so, I just stuffed my camera in my coat pocket and all was fine. I got in without any problems, but I still never took any pics once I was in there. I'm totally kicking myself in the butt for that.

It was probably one of the most energetic shows I've ever been to. No props, just super rambunctious performers. The lead singer (second from the right in the above pic) did his first of many stage dives during the first song. He didn't let up the whole show, and he didn't get any breaks during slow songs, because well they don't really have any slow songs. The show ended with him climbing to the top of the speakers, which were about 15 feet high, and then diving into a sea of fans. It was epic! And it was really cool to see how much he trusted in his fans, or maybe it was that he was so high/drunk that he thought he was superman or something. Either way, it was totally awesome.

If you like alternative rock, they're a fun show to see. I just found out they're playing with The Black Keys and Florence + The Machine (one of my faves) at the Milwaukee Summerfest on July 6th. If we hadn't just start that darn budget I'd totally buy a couple of tickets.

Financial Peace

Financial Peace, that's where Tim and I hope we're headed. A couple of weekends ago, when I went to visit my parents in The Great Lakes State, my momma let me borrow her book, Financial Peace Revisited by Dave Ramsey. I pretty much read the entire book on my train ride home. So yes, it's a very easy and fast read, and it's filled with lot's of good tid bits on making the most of your money now, getting out of debt and saving for your future.

Timmy and I both agreed it would be amazing to get out of debt (damn those student loans) faster than the like 15 year payment plan the government sets you up on. The cherry on top is that by doing so, you actually pay less, because you're not paying as much interest.  So on February 26th, I took the first stab at creating our monthly budget, I used a combination of the worksheet Dave Ramsey provides in his book and an Excel spreadsheet I found online. On the 27th, Tim and I sat down and looked over it together, changed some things around, and started living by it on March 1st.

We've been following our budget for 5 days now, and so far so good. Tim even went out with some guys he works with and did a good job of only using his blow money (this is CASH ONLY that was budgeted to be spent on something not in the budget) in Tim's case beer and pool. I haven't spent mine yet, it's only the 5th and it has to last me the whole month! Today for the first time in a very very very long time while getting groceries, I will carry a calculator (to add prices up as I go, so I don't go over budget) and I'll pay in cash. I'm actually kind of excited for the challenge.

I'm already getting obsessed with looking at our plan trying to figure out how to make it even better. And we've already learned, when you realize you over budgeted for something, that it's a great feeling. But let's say gas jump up to over $4 a gallon and you realize that's going to break your budget, that stinks.

Every so often I'll give ya an update on how we're doing, and pass along any money saving/budgeting tips that I stumble upon.

March Love List

Happy March 1st! It's time for my monthly love list.

• My adorable niece Andi Jo turns 3 this month. I can't believe how fast she's growing up.
• Her birthday means I'll have a good excuse to drag Timmy to Michigan
• St. Patricks Day, college gave me a new found love for this day ;)
• The dying of the Chicago River, it's disgustingly cool
• Spring is almost here and man am I ready for it
• The new Anthropologie catalog, it's lovely
• We're on our way to financial peace (Tim and I started living on a budget today—more on this later this week)
• I'm really loving the women's Bible study I've been going to
• I don't know what I did before the internet

Mini Rant

This is going to be a quick post, because I've got to go get all dolled up for the Cage the Elephant concert Timmy and I are going to tonight!

I was Facebook stalking tonight—creepy I know, but you know you do it too—and I came across the picture below. It disgusts me, prompted a short rant to my husband and now to you guys.

This photo has 3 likes and the comment "I wanted this poster soooo bad hahaha" The picture and the 3 likes are all from girls I know to be junior and seniors in high school. I think it's sad that teenage girls have no self respect these days. Do they not understand the message this sends to guys?

I asked my hubby, "Now, if you were a single guy and looking for a girlfriend, what would you think off the girl who posted something like this?" 

His reply, "Well...I wouldn't think of her as girlfriend material. She'd be a one night stand, or a two night if she's lucky"

You get back what you put out there—treat yourself with respect and guys, and the other woman for that matter will treat you with respect. Sorry for the rant and getting all up the proverbial soap box. I could go on for days, but I'll save you from that and sign off now.